ok one more before i go to bed! this one was hard to hear ..
Added 2022-09-19 05:02:44 +0000 UTCok one more before i go to bed! this one was hard to hear but soooo convincing! I am trying it out and will def keep you updated on how it goes for me. so, forget about making goals for yourself and focus on systems. hear me out. a goal is something you want to accomplish systems are processes that lead to the result. the issues with only having goals is: 1 - win or lose, you still have the same goals. 2 - there are only monetary changes 3 - "either / or" conflict 4 - "goal vs long term" conflict 1. winning or losing: everyone, both winners and loser in the game have goals. therefore, goal setting cannot be what differentiates the two. 2. monetary change: completing a goal only changes your life for that moment in time. 3. either/or: either you achieve the goal and win or you fail miserably (even if you were making progress in the right direction.) 4. goal vs long term: when you achieve a goal - what do you do after? chances are your motivation after completing it will quickly fade. ill go into systems next week because it's quite extensive but know that going about your life through small increments of change is the better way than forcinggg yourself through massive conflict and massive goals which will only fade in the end. thanks for reading today's facts! catch ya next week for more on habits as i will be taking the entire month to learn about this part of being a human. ♥
