

To feel soft and feminine is to feel safe and free. It's more than a feeling - it's a state. In our reality, those states often involve things like food, shelter, finances and human interaction. Without them, we go into survival. When taking on more than our flesh bag can handle, we go into crisis. In my own crisis, I can handle my own survival mode. When asked to take on someone else's and only given access to the gas pedal without the wheel, it's like being on a never ending car chase. You have absolutely no idea where you're going, but you can sort of avoid the sharp turns.