Almost all of the subs (except for one in particular) I've e..
Added 2023-02-10 05:03:12 +0000 UTCAlmost all of the subs (except for one in particular) I've ever played with have had notoriously bad communication. In my early ignorance, I wondered if this was a personality trait of the type of human that liked this sort of play. I've certainly struggled with my own verbal communication in the past and am no stranger to the fun of being fucked up, so I erred on the side of empathy. Until I met people who broke this rule. And felt the difference. In the flow of our play. The depth of our connection. And the intenseness of our fuckery. I wonder if it's rare or I'm bad at calling it in. Part of me thinks I called in the subs that wanted to show me the shadows of my dominance. That while I have no desire to take words from those who give me my power, I often got my power from giving words to those who could not find them. Making choices for others. Even if I was asked to. I'd seen Doms do it constantly, so it felt like a natural part of the role. Until I remembered I usually hate doing things by the rules. And so I wondered. Even if it's done, is it right? And beyond if it's "right", is it helpful for the recipient?
